Cancer Survivors and Caregivers Celebrated at Soboba

The Soboba Foundation is recognized for its many years of support of the American Cancer Society Relay for Life of Riverside County East, including hosting the annual Survivor & Caregiver Luncheon for the 10th year on July 31. From left, Soboba Foundation Secretary Antonia Briones-Venegas, ACS Senior Development Manager Cathi Hill and Soboba Foundation Member-at-Large and Soboba Tribal Council Sergeant-at-Arms Kelli Hurtado. | Photos courtesy of the Soboba Band of Luiseño Indians

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With a theme of Denim & Diamonds, cancer survivors and caregivers were given a chance to shine at the 10th annual luncheon presented by the Relay for Life of Riverside County East and the Soboba Foundation at the Soboba Casino Resort Event Center on July 31.

Cathi Hill, Senior Development Manager for the American Cancer Society, plans the annual event with help from many volunteers, friends and family members. She presented a special award to members of the Soboba Foundation for their longtime and ongoing support.

“I want to express our sincerest appreciation for all the support the Soboba Foundation has provided to the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life for many years,” Hill, who is the Relay for Life staff partner, said. “I have been fortunate to work with Andrew Vallejos, who holds the role of Sponsorship Coordinator, and other Foundation members for the past 12 years.”

She said it has been an honor to watch the relationship grow over the years and on the 10th anniversary of the Soboba Foundation sponsoring the Survivor & Caregiver Luncheon presented them with a crystal recognition award. Accepting were Foundation Secretary Antonia Briones-Venegas and Member-at-Large Kelli Hurtado, who also serves on Soboba Tribal Council as Sergeant-at-Arms. At last year’s luncheon, Hurtado shared her survivor’s story.

To illustrate the level of commitment from the Soboba Foundation that the American Cancer Society Relay for Life has enjoyed through the years, a slide show was presented that highlighted just some of the ways the Foundation has supported the cause including hosting Relay for Life events for 12 years; Relay Golf Classic, 11 years; Soboba Lip Sync Contest, 11 years; Casino Night fundraiser, 10 years; and the Up, Down & Dirty 4 A Cure Mud Run, 2 years.

The annual luncheon, organized to celebrate survivors, remember those who have been lost and thank all the caregivers, is designed to promote hope. Hope that anyone facing cancer can find the care and support they need and hope for a cancer-free tomorrow.

“Cancer survivors are living proof that we are making a difference in the fight against this disease,” emcee Bob Baker said. “They endured days of illness, medical appointments and tears, yet they are here with us today as we honor their crusade against this disease.”

Caregiver Myrna Hollinger, left, with her cancer survivor daughter Carol Hollinger at the playful photo booth set up at the Soboba Casino Resort Event Center as part of the “Denim & Diamonds” luncheon.

About 120 guests attended the luncheon that featured live music by Sheila and Larry James of the Jamestown singing duo. The first guest speaker was cancer survivor and Hill’s sister, Cynthia Belzl, who shared her personal journey of being diagnosed with breast cancer in May of 2020.

Although she was told her cancer was caught early, it was aggressive and she had to undergo five months of chemotherapy and about 21 rounds of radiation. Her treatments at City of Hope in Duarte took place during the height of the pandemic so no one was allowed to go with her to her treatments. She said while sharing many of the same feelings and experiences as other survivors she uses the words grateful and thankful a lot.

“What got me through was having wonderfully supportive family and friends,” Belzl said.

All cancer survivors in attendance were asked to stand to receive a gift of a medallion that read “This is what a cancer survivor looks like.”

Two of those survivors are Soboba Band of Luiseño Indians Elder Marian Chacon and her best friend Rachel Miranda, both 86-year-old breast cancer survivors. Chacon, who was diagnosed in 2009, had a lumpectomy and 30 days of radiation treatments.

“It was found on a routine mammogram and I always make sure to keep up with all my checkups,” Chacon said.

Miranda, whose breast cancer was also discovered through her annual mammogram, was treated in the 1990s. Both attend Soboba-sponsored American Cancer Society and Relay for Life events as often as they can.

The next guest speaker was Chrissy Rohlmeier, of Wildomar, who became a caregiver at the age of 20. Shortly after her father passed away suddenly from lymphoma in late 1994, her mother was diagnosed with lung cancer.

“My mom was the rock of the family, the woman that did everything for me,” Rohlmeier said, adding that to support her mother, she had to step up her game and become the shopper, cook, cleaner, the person who took her to the doctor and the nurse who made sure she was eating, staying hydrated and taking all of her medications.

“When your loved one comes out on the other end of cancer, when they fight like crazy and become a survivor, it has to be the best feeling in the world for them but also for the caregiver that is fighting right alongside them,” Rohlmeier said. “Sadly, that wasn’t the case for us. My mom passed just five short months after her diagnosis, eight months after we lost my dad.”

Cynthia Belzl shares her cancer survivor story as a large screen displays her many years of involvement with American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life.

She admits that being a caregiver is probably the most difficult thing she’s ever done in her life but said it’s also the biggest privilege she ever had.

Caregivers were then asked to stand and receive a special token of gratitude, which was a flower seed packet imprinted with the words “Where love resides, hope grows.” It seemed like a fitting gift for those that nurture others.

Another caregiver in attendance was Myrna Hollinger, 88, of Moreno Valley. After spending three years supporting her husband through his terminal cancer in the early 1990s, she became her daughter’s caregiver after she was diagnosed with abdominal sarcoma in 2001.

Carol Hollinger, now 55, was living her best life when her world was turned upside down and inside out. She was set to graduate from California State University, San Bernardino with her bachelor’s degree in English and she was planning her wedding, which got canceled when her fiancé left because he couldn’t handle the situation.

“Everything just came to a halt,” she said.

Mothers become caregivers as soon as their child is born but Myrna said watching her “baby” go through a 9-1/2-hour surgery and a long recovery period was difficult as she hated to see her suffering.

“After being married for 40 years, it was rough to get on without my husband but after all the stuff he went through with his cancer for two years, it was a relief that he was finally out of his misery,” Myrna said. “It’s completely different when it’s your child. For a while, we didn’t know if she’d survive.”

Because Carol’s surgery was so extensive and all her cancer was removed, no chemotherapy was needed. Myrna said when the doctor told her after the surgery that her daughter would recover and would be able to live a long and healthy life she told him, “From your mouth to God’s ears.”

Carol said that during her recovery, she spent a lot of time in her recliner, watching television.

“I saw a Relay for Life commercial and at that point I could barely walk, but I told myself that I wanted to get healthy enough to do a Relay one day. And I did,” she said.

Friends and fellow cancer survivors Rachel Miranda, left, and Marian Chacon wear necklaces gifted to them at the Denim & Diamonds Survivor & Caregiver Luncheon on July 31. The medallion’s message is: “This is what a cancer survivor looks like.”

Hurtado realized firsthand the importance of a good caregiver and thinks the annual luncheon is very important as it honors them while giving hope to those that are going through treatments.

“The caregivers go through so much watching their loved ones go through so much pain and suffering and there’s nothing they can do,” Hurtado said. “I love that the American Cancer Society recognizes caregivers because sometimes they’re not applauded enough. My husband was my caregiver and after my surgery he did everything for me. He took time off work, he scrubbed me in the shower and he always made sure I was okay. I know that was hard for him.”

Hemet City Council Member Linda Krupa was invited to the luncheon by her friend Lauri Morris who is a cancer survivor, caregiver, friend and fellow Rotarian. Attending the event for the first time, Krupa said she was very impressed. She has attended several Relay for Life events in the past honoring her two sisters, who succumbed to cancer and one sister who is a survivor, as is Krupa.

“Upon finding the (breast) lump in January 2021, I announced to everyone who would listen to insist on annual screenings. Thankfully there are many of us survivors, but prevention would be welcomed,” she said. “The surgery and radiation are complete and I’m in the five years of daily pills and numerous tests. I am surviving cancer.”

All Relay for Life events include a Luminaria Ceremony, which is a ceremony of remembrance and hope. It symbolizes a time to grieve for those that have been lost, to reflect on a personal cancer experience or that of a loved one and to find hope that tomorrow holds the promise of a cancer-free world.

Baker said, “Luminarias have such a unique ability to evoke emotions from all of us. To one person, a luminaria is a symbol of hope, as it represents the life of someone who is living life cancer free. To another, it may represent sorrow and sadness as the life of a loved one who is no longer with us is remembered. To someone else it may represent peace and acceptance as they realize they are never truly alone in this journey. The luminaria ceremony is a powerful representation of why we are all here; why we are all fighting.”

Wildomar’s Chrissy Rohlmeier shares her experience as a caregiver to her mother during her battle with lung cancer.

The lights were lowered and each guest was asked to light the flameless tea light candle inside the bag they were given to create a luminaria in honor or memory of someone who has touched their lives.

Baker said, “We are turning our sorrows into celebrations and we are converting our losses into action. We have put faces and voices to this disease. We know we have made a difference, and we will continue to make a difference. We will keep fighting until there is a cure.”

A moment of silence was requested “to reflect on how cancer has touched each of us personally. It’s a time for us to look inside ourselves with quiet reflection and find hope. Because no matter what our experience with cancer has been, we all share the hope that we will one day live in a world where our children and their children will never have to hear the words, ‘You have cancer.’”

A slideshow was presented which included a host of submitted photos in honor of those who are cancer survivors and in memory of those who are no longer here.

Baker explained that the American Cancer Society exists to improve the lives of cancer patients and their families. Despite evidence that regular screening gives a person the best chance of early detection and prevents certain cancers from even starting, too many individuals for whom cancer screening is recommended remain unscreened.

“In 2022, more than 1.9 million new cancer cases arose and there were 600,000 deaths,” Baker cited. “That’s 1,700 deaths per day. One in two men will be diagnosed with cancer and 1 in 3 women will be diagnosed with cancer. This illustrates that we still have a lot of work to do and that is why the American Cancer Society is fighting cancer on every front.”

In 2021, American Cancer Society programs touched 55 million lives. It continues to be the largest nonprofit funder of cancer research in the United States outside of the federal government, investing more than $5 billion over 75 years.

A large screen showcases just some of the many collaborative endeavors between the Soboba Foundation and the American Cancer Society Relay for Life of Riverside County East.

Hill, who has been on staff for 17 years with ACS, looks forward to the annual Survivor & Caregiver Luncheon. With much help from volunteer Billie Jo Thompson, Hill plans and implements novel themes and an inspiring program each year.

“When the room is set and decorated, I am able to let out a sigh of relief, and then the doors open for our guests to enter and my heart skips a beat with such joy to see all the smiling faces and the love in that room,” Hill said. “But if I must choose one part of our time together it is hearing our guest speakers’ stories and having them share their most vulnerable moments of their journeys. I love my job with the American Cancer Society but I love spreading hope more.”

ACS’s annual Relay for Life is the world’s largest volunteer-based fundraising event. For more than 36 years, communities across the world have come together to honor and remember loved ones and take action for lifesaving change. This year’s Riverside County East event will be Sept. 24 from 2 to 8 p.m. in Jurupa Valley. Event contact is Billie Jo Williams at or 909-957-7189. For more information,

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